The public school system has its good qualities and its bad qualities. It has its good teachers and its bad teachers. Unfortunately navigating the different schools can be daunting especially for foster families that work out of multiple homes. While most foster homes will work with a single school, emergency and short term foster homes work with many schools for varying amounts of time. This can be confusing as really the only thing you can do is do the most you can in the least amount of time.
I often find the schools unsurprised when children go into foster care. Teachers and the primary reporters of suspected abuse and even when they aren’t the ones that reported, they are usually the first to know that issues are arising. The problem with emergency foster care is you need to learn everything there is to know about a child in a short amount of time and then implement a plan.
Using the children’s teachers as a reference with new children is a good resource. Often times the teachers at the children’s school have been the only stable adult in the child’s life. These adults have usually built a foundation with the child that can be built upon with the right direction. The children will usually trust the teachers they already know sooner than they will trust the new foster parents.
One of the first things I do with a new placement is sit down with the teachers and get an idea of the child’s performance, level of education, and broad behavioral challenges. Then I request (sometimes forcefully) a team meeting. The team meeting should include the child’s teachers, the school counselor, the school social worker, the principal, the foster parents, and the agency social worker. When feasible, the bio-parents should also be included. A plan needs to be made to address where the children are and where they need to be and then make a plan on how to get there. It is up to the foster parent to be an advocate and enforce the plan. It is also up to the foster parent to request services for the child. And then keep requesting until the services are received.
Try not to lose your patience. These things take time. Persistence is the key to achieving effective advocacy.
- DCF seeking quality foster families (newsherald.com)
- Op-ed: What needs to change at DSHS after $11 million foster-care settlement (seattletimes.com)